Are you noticing behaviours that seem out of the ordinary or suspicious, or just a gut feeling that is causing you to feel stressed out and anxious?

• He always keeps his cell phone with him, even when he goes to the washroom.
• She is never home – she is always working late.

You really want to trust your spouse and you don’t want to believe they are cheating. But if they are having an affair you will feel like such a fool. You need to find the truth.

So what do you do? Well, if you are like most people you start to snoop, searching for evidence you can use to confront your spouse. You look at emails, text messages, phone records, receipts and more. You go through their pockets or purses when they are in the shower. Yet even if your searches turn up nothing, you still don’t feel satisfied because you have this nagging thought that your spouse is having an affair. [Read more…]